Becoming Who I Am - Young Men on Being Gay
                                
                                
                             
                            
                         
                            
                            
                        Proud, happy, grateful-gay youth describe their lives in terms that would have seemed surprising a generation ago. Yet many adults, including parents, are skeptical of this sea change-coming out is supposed to involve struggle. This is the kind of thinking, say the honest, humorous young men in Ritch Savin-Williams's new book, that needs to change.